It’s a long story though and years back in school, I dated him for 7 yrs and we schooled and served together. Actually he was my first guy and after Youth services he wanted us to travel home together where our parents were to start up a new life, probably plan for the future but I didn’t agree to travel back together with him Because I needed to work a bit and may be I felt that I needed a space. The young man was hurt. After he travelled we had this distance but he pressured that I had to resign the work to meet him which I did, my mother was in the picture. But when I resigned and came back we were always quarrelling with each other. After some time he changed, he stopped calling, he was aggressive. I later discovered he was dating another girl around 2010/2011, I was hurt. Today he is married to the girl with a baby girl. A lot happened before he married the girl according to him, he wanted to marry me but I couldn’t believe in him then, I lost trust and love for him but I was dating No one. In 2011 I was so hurt and heartbroken and I met another young man who wanted to marry me too but I realised I couldn’t trust or even date him without reminding him of my former date. I was confused, helpless and I needed advice but I couldn’t get and I ended up losing the second guy to his ex-girlfriend. Today they are married with with a baby boy and i’m still not married. Presently I hardly meet guys as before, i’m not in a relationship and i’m 31years old. Please, I still need your advice.
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